Change is just a fact or life

Change is not necessarily good or bad. It is just a fact of life. Environment could change and we could change. And for woman, the changes are especially more and profound. According to Satir's theory, any change start with an foreign element in status quo, which we will initially resist and deny, then make us more "chaos", then we get used to it and integrates it with ourselves to reach a real status quo. There is no comparison of the new status quo with the old one, just that we are comfortable with each one at different time.

Why is this related to career and wealth?  Well...

Actually, we think this "change" idea applies to every aspect of your life. From your career to your health, from your relationship to your diet. Change is the blackhole of your energy. To better manage it is to better manage yourself. You need it when you swith you job, get a promotion, find a new love, or even decide to change your order in a restruant.

There are only two advices here.

1. Make sure you are comfortable and understand its consequences.  Maybe you don't like your new boss's conduct. Maybe you wish you are still doing your old job. Whatever makes you comfortabe defines your character. Don't let it down easily. At the same time, understand that what makes you comfortable does not always make others comfortable, thus you should be prepared for any consequences.

2. Change yourself if necessary. We are not carved in stone and we are able to change. If you feel every external element is pushing you to the edge, before rejecting it as a piece of junk, take a hard and close look at the "edge", there might be some interesting stuff there too. 

 
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