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Many relationships flounder over the festive season, so how can you avoid disappointments, strife and eventual breakups? Writer Theun Mares, author of This Darned Elusive Happiness offers some advice. Why do so many problems arise over the holiday season? There are two main reasons for this occurring. First, each person's expectations have been building throughout the year. Secondly, because the end of the year is such a significant event, each couple will also have their own expectations of what the holidays will mean for them. Then, when or families start spending more time with each other, the pressure of all the undelivered communication builds up and expectations are suddenly not met. Since the necessary skills to communicate properly are missing, the frequent results are arguments and break-ups. Without these skills it is also so much more difficult to build bridges again, and so the break-ups are more likely to remain permanent. |
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Planning a honeymoon with your kids takes some extra planning, not just for your alone time, but also to make sure the kids are as excited as you are about your chosen destination and all that it provides. Here are the top tips for your planning stages:
- Check out resorts' amenities and kids' camps with the help of a travel agent. There are so many great programs out there, an expert can lead you to the best ones.
- Compare family packages at resorts to their honeymoon packages. Often, family packages give great benefits for kids.
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ON a brisk autumn afternoon, in the shadow of the marble arch in Washington Square Park, a couple visiting from Ohio walked along holding hands like two teenagers going steady, decades after “going steady” went out of vogue.
When a stranger asked why they had chosen to join hands during their stroll, the man, Dave Findlay, looked at his wife of seven years and answered in a word: “Connection.” Or as the Beatles sang back in 1963: "When I’ll feel that something, I want to hold your hand." Those simple lyrics turned an expression of teenage longing and first romantic steps into a No. 1 hit. Yet today, when Justin Timberlake is at the top of the charts with "SexyBack" and the digital airwaves are filled with steamy lyrical declarations ("I’m into havin’ sex, I ain't into makin' love" sang 50 Cent in "In da Club"), couples like Dave and Carey Findlay still intertwine fingers, kiss palms and link pinkies as they meander through parks, cross streets and snake through crowds. |
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From the 70's to the 90's |
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You've come a long way, baby -- if you're a woman, that is. A recent survey comparing gender stereotypes common in the 1970s to those held in the 1990s finds that while images of women have improved, those of their male counterparts have soured.
Twenty years ago, women were viewed as indecisive, subjective and passive, unfamiliar with the ways of the world and unable to separate feelings from ideas. All those traits were absent from the 1990s survey, conducted by psychologists Matthew Winter, Ph.D., of George Washington University and Diane Clark, Ph.D., and Elisabeth Diamond, Ph.D., of Shippenberg University. |
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Dating strategies for the introvert |
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Are you energized by spending time alone? In meetings, do you need to be asked for your opinions and ideas? Do you tend to notice details that other people miss? Is your ideal celebration a small get-together, rather than a big party? The good news is, you're an introvert. Dr Laney, author of The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World, offers these tips to help you work with, instead of against, your temperament while dating.
With the anticipation (sometimes anxiety) leading up to it, trying to be on top of your game during it, and the stimulation of getting to know someone new, dating can be exhausting. Here are some tips to make it go smoothly. |
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