One of the more difficult aspects of parenting a teenager is allowing them their independence. Parents can see the pitfalls and dangers for teenagers that they seem unaware of. This can lead to parents trying to give too much advice or over protect their teenager. The best support you could give your children is your confidence in them. Encourage them to be independent, to make choices for themselves and in their relationships. Avoid interfering or advising unless they ask for your opinion. Even when your help is wanted use the opportunity to get them to think about what they are doing rather than telling them what to do.

Children’s relationships with girl/boy friens will be very important to them and there may be quite a rollercoaster of emotions as they learn about falling in love, being in love and the give and take of sharing their feelings for someone.Your skills may be needed as a listener. Be careful not to judge or give too much advice, this is a time for them to practice the relationship skills they need and they'll put these together using ideas from you, their friends and through each intimate relationship they has.