Why there're so many men love women who always give them cold shoulders? And the same thing occurs to many women, too. They are tortured by the reatheless partners, but on the other hand, they just can't quit them.

Acctually, such compulsory repeat in relationships is quite common in clinic psychology. To some of us, it's true that we tend to be strongly attracted by a certain kind of people, or say we connect with people who gave us a second chance to complete our unfinished businesses. The most persuasive possibility is that those people conceive some psychological features that also belongs to someone important in our former lives, for example, parents. We're going to interactive with those people, happily or painfully, thus tho make up the psychological needs that can not satisfied by parents.

Let's say there's a poor guy who is enamoured of a haughty and cold lady. Though the lady, who can never be satisfied, is always perticular to him, his passion can never be stopped, even there's someone tender and soft holds out the olive branch to him. The deep-seated reason is that the guy has an aggressive and high-demanding mother, who never shows her satisfaction or appreciation to her boy. Ever since his childhood, no matter how well he does, his never receive any congratulation or rewards from his mother. so when he has grown up, he's easily to be atrracted by women share similar attitude towards him. As the psychologists say, "Risk defines Rewards". He wants to win the beloved one's attention and appreciation, then to compelete his self-identity and self-respect, to make the proud woman looks at him with new views.